Love is the answer to many problems the believer faces.

SEE, There is human love and Devine love. Natural love is selfish. Divine love is giving, unselfish AND rewarding. It does not keep record of wrongs. It does not keep a grudge.

Natural love can turn to hatred when it doesn’t get its way. It will turn into the worst thing if not appeased. Divine love, when it is reviled (treated hatefully), reviles not again. Divine love does not bare grudges. I have been hurt too many times by people some have railed curses upon the ministry of God yet Divine love constraints me. I do not bear any grudge. I keep my gaze at the course that I must follow. I am a giver because of love. The nature of the divine love leads you into greatness. It paves the way for life’s best. It removes heartaches. It does not get moved by gossip, persecution or jealousy. It is easy going.

God’s divine love is not interested in what it can get but in what it can give. After our new spiritual birth, it is natural for divine love to flow through us and dominate how we live our lives and it forces you to be a giver because real lovers give. Real lovers are givers!
In our marriages as husbands and wives, God’s divine love must dominate us, not natural love, for it is too shallow. Not only can we love our spouse with natural affection, but with divine love that seeks other’s welfare, and never seeks its own. Reciprocate in always putting each other first and outdoing one another in love.

Again, In our Christian walk as believers, God’s divine love must dominate us, not natural love, for it is too shallow. Love is patient and kind; sometimes we endure a situation but we are not kind about it. It is the flesh that is haughty, rude, boastful, arrogant, conceited or unmannerly. BUT LOVE is the opposite.

When temptation comes (to respond in a natural love that turns to hatred when you don't get what you want), speak this confession:

“I am born of the love of God. I will allow the love of God within me to dominate this situation. God loves those who are undeserving and unlovely. Because of the nature of God is in me, I now love those who are undeserving and unlovely and do not respond out of my natural affinities [natural likes and dislikes]. I do not respond to gossip or anyone/anything against me. IN JESUS’ MIGHTY NAME!”

Keep confessing it even if every fiber in your body has responded enough, you keep confessing it. Keep telling yourself to the extent that every cell in your blood responds to the effect of the love of God in you. In the face of opposition; maintain your confession!!!